Aaron and I got engaged October 19, 2013 at the annual SCI Can Event, which is an event that Chris Norton,
one of the guys that was in the hospital with Aaron, started after he suffered
a spinal cord injury playing football for Luther College. Rewind back to
August, Aaron and Chris were getting together for lunch in Decorah since they
hadn’t seen each other in a while. Somewhere during the conversation Chris
asked Aaron when he was going to propose to me, Aaron said, “I know I want to I
just don’t know how.” Chris suggested that he do it at the SCI Can event in October, and the idea was born.
Chris and Aaron worked closely over the next couple of
months to devise a plan to make this the most memorable experience of my life.
Chris has a videographer with him named, Michael Crocker, so they decided to
make a video. The story that I was told was that Chris wanted to do Aaron’s
story for his monthly newsletter for the month of November. He wanted to get
Joanne, Aaron’s mother, Aaron, and I all to discuss our experience of Aaron’s
injury. Chris told me he wanted us to come to the event and they were going to
show a short clip of the video of Aaron’s story that night. I obliged and said
of course anything I could do to help!
Chris and Michael came to Aaron and my apartment to
interview the three of us and according to me all went well. About a month
later Chris asked Aaron and I if we would come to Luther College and do some
further interviewing more about our relationship and how it has changed/grown
since going through a spinal cord injury together. I thought nothing of it.
Everyone still questions how the proposal was such a shock to me when I was
such a big part of my own surprise engagement! I swear, I had no idea!
Now, back to 10/19/13, around 3
am Aaron got a call from Lucas saying he was about back to New
Hampton but he ran out of gas and needed to be picked up. I’ve never seen Aaron
climb out of bed so fast, later I found out he didn’t sleep a wink that night
so he more than welcomed the idea to get his mind off of his nervousness. Around
9 am I went to Decorah, I
was getting my hair cut and colored by my best friend, Tracy. I was gone
literally all day. When I arrived back at home Lucas and Flynn were over and
Aaron and they were eating a little something (another ploy to keep his mind
occupied) and I had to hurry up and get ready. In fact, I was kind of negative
about the thought of driving all the way back to Decorah since I had just been
there all day. I was grumpy cause I had no idea what to wear and nothing seemed
to look the way I want it. Pretty typical for me if you ask Aaron. I wanted to
wear jeans and he came out of the bedroom with dress pants and a shirt and tie
on and I was like, “what the heck, where are you going?!” He’s like, “MaeLyn,
just wear a dress, please!”
We arrived at Luther and found our seats, there was a full
dinner that night and Aaron didn’t eat an ounce of it. Chris had told us that
he was going to have us come up and introduce us to the crowd and I assured myself
that was why he was so nervous he couldn’t eat, little did I know! Chris asked
us to come up and gave a brief summary of our relationship during his accident
and then proceeded with playing our video. It was the first time I had seen it
and probably the 15th time Aaron had! I’ll let the video do the rest
of the talking:
It was the best day of my life, hands down. I love the fact
that I get to keep this to perhaps show our children and maybe even our
grandchildren. I always told Aaron that I knew him too well and he would never
be able to surprise me because I would totally suspect something but as you can
see, I was completely surprised and honestly, that was probably the best part
about the whole thing! That, and the fact that I get to grow old with the man
of my dreams!